Sunday, December 11, 2011

Angry Friend

I was at an awards ceremony where my friend, Kim, was the announcer. Another friend, Steven, sat nearby. At one point, Steven corrected Kim on a name: "Not Widdle, Biddle. I told you for twenty minutes how to pronounce that name!" I was seated at a table in front and stood, looking at Steven. "It doesn't really matter, Steven!" My heart pounded. I glanced at the lady whose name was mispronounced and thought it probably mattered to her.
Then I realized I had probably offended Steven as well.
When the ceremony was over he came to the middle of the tables and threw a bunch of papers and napkins. "There you go. Thanks to everyone who helped tonight. (he named a few people except me who was in charge of the whole evening.) I turned to my husband who sat at my left and said, "He's pissed at me, isn't he?" My husband nodded and said, "Wouldn't you be?" I said, "To a certain degree."
After Steven was done he said, "I've never been criticized in public like that, ever." (ironically, that is what he was doing when I stopped him).
I was almost awake now and decided to change the ending. I crawled across my table and ran to the middle and hugged him.

To dream that you are attending a ceremony suggests that sacrifice and devotion is necessary for success. You may be going through a crucial moment in your waking life that requires your commitment. It is a time for introspection, self-discovery, and inner changes.
To see friends in your dream signify aspects of your personality that you have rejected, but are ready to incorporate and acknowledge. The relationships you have with those around you are important in learning about yourself. Alternatively, dreaming of a friend indicates positive news.
To see your childhood friend in your dream signifies regression into your past where you had no responsibilities. Things were much simpler and carefree. You may be wanting to escape the pressures and stresses of adulthood. Consider the relationship you had with this friend and the lessons that were learned. Alternatively, the childhood friend suggests that you have been acting in a childish manner. You need to start acting like an adult.
The number twenty indicates that you are in need of support. Perhaps you are feeling withdrawn and isolated.The dream may signify having 20:20 vision. You are seeing something more clearly now.

To dream that you are holding or expressing anger symbolizes frustrations and disappointments in your Self. You tend to repress your negative emotions or project your anger onto others. You need to look within yourself.

Being angry in your dream may have been carried over from your waking life. Dreams function as a safe outlet where you can express your strong and/or negative emotions. You are suppressing your anger and aggression, instead of consciously acknowledging them.

To see your husband in your dream signifies the waking relationship with your husband and the unconscious feelings you have towards him. The dream may be trying to focus on hidden elements that you are not addressing in your waking life.

To dream of the direction left symbolizes the unconscious and your repressed thoughts/emotions. It is an indication of passivity.

Dreams r yours

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